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Commandment 9 - Speak the Truth in Love
 

You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor. (Exodus 20:16, NIV)


Main Point:

Lies divide us, truth unites us.  You cannot love your neighbors while spreading lies about them.

 

I. Understanding the commandment

This is the 9th commandment of the “Big Ten” given to the Israelites in the desert. We usually think of this command as "do not lie" rather than "do not give false testimony." Perhaps it is a function of how we were raised or what we learned as a child in Sunday School. However there is a distinction between these two that needs to be delineated.

The 9th commandment strictly forbids one from intentionally giving false testimony in a case. Why? To do otherwise would render the justice system totally corrupt. Keep in mind:

A. The LORD is a Righteous Judge

Because God is righteous (Deuteronomy 32:4; Isaiah 45:21) He judges righteously (Psalm 116:5, 7:11, 9:8).  Righteousness is His nature.  In fact, it is God who defines righteousness and not ourselves.  Each of us has an opinion but God has THE standard of righteousness that applies equally to all people.

Then the Lord said, "Look, I am setting a plumb line among my people Israel; I will spare them no longer. (Amos 7:8, NIV)

God describes His righteous standard as a "plumb line" that He sets before His people.  A plumb line is used by builders to determine whether a wall has been built perfectly straight.  When God puts up a plumb line on our lives, His righteousness reveals our crooked paths plainly.  His standard is His own perfect standard of righteousness.  Realizing the truth that you can never live up to His perfect standard should send you running to the cross of the LORD Jesus (see the Gospel of GRACE).

B. Righteousness Depends Upon Truth

The LORD's anger burned against Israel's leaders who lied.  A nation takes much time to build but leaders of a nation can destroy it quickly through lying:

1Woe to the shepherds who are destroying and scattering the sheep of my pasture!" declares the LORD ... 14They commit adultery and live a lie. They strengthen the hands of evildoers ... 32They tell them and lead my people astray with their reckless lies (Jeremiah 23:1,14,32, NIV)

Leaders are accountable for more than their own actions. Any moral failure of a leader emboldens others to do the same.  As a consequence of their responsibility for a whole group of people, a leader who is caught lying should be required to give up his/her office.  A whole society is at risk when leaders lack integrity.  Righteousness depends upon truth.

C. Our Testimony Must Be True, Especially in Formal Proceedings

At the heart of Jewish law, based on the commandments and principles provided in the Torah (first five books of the Bible), is that in any formal proceeding there must be two or more witnesses to establish the facts in a case:

15 One witness is not enough to convict a man accused of any crime or offense he may have committed. A matter must be established by the testimony of two or three witnesses. 16 If a malicious witness takes the stand to accuse a man of a crime, 17 the two men involved in the dispute must stand in the presence of the LORD before the priests and the judges who are in office at the time. 18 The judges must make a thorough investigation, and if the witness proves to be a liar, giving false testimony against his brother, 19 then do to him as he intended to do to his brother. You must purge the evil from among you. 20 The rest of the people will hear of this and be afraid, and never again will such an evil thing be done among you. (Deuteronomy 19:15-20, NIV)

This passage makes it clear that judicial responsibility is to determine the truth. More than one person's testimony is required to convict and that testimony must be truthful and in agreement. If witnesses disagree, the judge must carefully investigate to determine what is really true. If false witnesses are exposed who intended harmful punishment to their neighbor, then the punishment is to be inflicted on the false witness.

One should never be judged guilty on the basis of one person's testimony. That is, in fact, the way the American judicial system was established. This very biblical principle is one of many incorporated into the framework our laws. Though the judicial system sometimes fail - because it is run by people who sometimes fail - the principles on which the system is built are sound.

It should be obvious that a nation cannot act justly without ensuring the integrity of witnesses.

15 " 'Do not pervert justice; do not show partiality to the poor or favoritism to the great, but judge your neighbor fairly. 16 " 'Do not go about spreading slander among your people. " 'Do not do anything that endangers your neighbor's life. I am the LORD. (Leviticus 19:15-16, NIV)

From this commandment, comparing Scripture with Scripture, we see these principles as necessary for people to live together and sustain a coherent society.


II. Applying the Commandment

In a court case, are attorneys concerned with exposing the truth?  Based on the deceitful nature of people they should be.  Prosecutors, however, tend to focus on a guilty verdict.  They emphasize the truth that is favorable toward their case against the accused.  Defense attorneys focus on a not-guilty verdict.  So their course of action is to try and disprove or discredit the prosecution's case and present truth that is favorable toward the accused.  In the course of the trial we all hope that the judge and jury can accurately determine the whole truth and nothing but the truth so a just verdict can be reached.

Q: What would our society look like if everyone was a perpetual liar?

Clearly falsehood divides us and truth unites us.  In the New Testament, the Bible reveals the need for truth:

22You were taught, with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; 23to be made new in the attitude of your minds; 24and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness. 25Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to his neighbor, for we are all members of one body. (Eph 4:22-25, NIV)

Note that your "old self" - that is, the you before you entered into a relationship with the LORD Jesus - is corrupt.  In fact, it is corrupted by "deceitful desires" (Eph. 4:22, NIV).  Our nature without the LORD Jesus has lying at its core.  Without the LORD making you into a "new creation" (2 Cor. 5:17, NIV), your life would be marked by deceit.  Obviously, this makes it difficult to enact justice when human beings have this tendency to lie to protect themselves or to puff themselves up.

Q: Do you regularly evaluate your own truthfulness, or lack of it?

  • Getting a regular dose of God's Word every day is vital to our integrity.  It shines a bright light on our thoughts, motives, words, and actions.  Through regular study, we can shed any deceit we find through the LORD's conviction of His truth.

We are to be truthful witnesses in the formal setting of a court case to be sure.  But the Bible also says to "speak truthfully  to his neighbor" (Eph. 4:25, NIV).  In both formal and informal settings, there is no place for lying in the life of a believer.

Q: So the 9th commandment indicates that we must not bear false witness in a formal sense, we need to tell the truth.  Does this commandment require absolute honesty at all times?

Consider the husband whose wife asks him, "Honey, does this dress still make me look fat?"  Now if he answers "Yes" then he is telling his wife that she looks fat.  Even if he answers "No," the response could be construed that she looks fat without the dress.  The poor husband loses either way.  In such a situation, it is better to avoid the question with something like "You are just the most beautiful woman I ever see - no matter what you are wearing!"  Oh, and husbands, be sure you are telling the truth when you say this!

Megan married an older man who "swept her off her feet" as we say. The engagement period was short so she did not realize that Jerry was a heavy drinker. When he came home drunk, he was downright mean. At first, he verbally accosted Megan. She seemed to think that somehow she had angered Jerry and tried harder to please him. As his alcohol-induced mean streaks continued, he began to use his fists to make his point. Megan was afraid of him and ashamed for anyone to know. Eventually her neighbor, Betty, found out and told her: "If he comes home drunk again, leave the house immediately and take refuge here." It took some convincing but Megan finally found the courage to run to her neighbor's house to avoid the verbal and physical abuse. Jerry was enraged that she was not home but had noticed her becoming chummy with the lady next door. Suspecting she was hiding at her neighbor's house, he ran over and pounded on the door, screaming for his wife to come out. Betty cracked open the door, still latched, and started to ask him to leave. "Is Megan in there?" he screamed.

Q: What should Betty say?

  • No, she is not here.
  • Yes, she is here but you cannot see her.
  • Go away, I have called the police.
  • Something clever like, "Did you try calling her mother's house?"

Q: Does Betty break the 9th commandment if she says Megan is not with her?

The main point of this commandment is not to bear false witness against your neighbor as in a formal judicial sense. Clearly, from the rest of Scripture and in particular the New Testament commands to speak the truth in love, this commandment must be seen to extend to a more universal application to avoid lying. Nevertheless, not telling a lie is different from concealing the truth (or part of it) from someone who has no right to demand it. In this case, Betty was not required to speak the truth about Megan's whereabouts to someone who was intent on causing her immediate harm. While living in the world, we are to "be as shrewd as snakes and as innocent as doves" (Matthew 10:16, NIV).

 

© 2010. Randy Lariscy.  All rights reserved.

 


 

 


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